Club Webeden

Confidentiality

All photos, emails and any other private material submitted is treated with the strictest of confidentiality. No information will ever be disclosed to third parties and all information will only ever be used by those organising Club Webeden Parties.

We take privacy very seriously.

NO PHOTOS CAMERA PHONES OR ELECTRONIC EQUIPMENT OF ANY KIND IS ALLOWED WITHIN ANY CLUB WEBEDEN PARTY.

There is security at all of our parties.

Some marked security and some unmarked security posing as swingers.

If you cause a threat to any other person or indulge in ANY threatening behaviour you will be thrown out of the party very quickly as a swinging atmosphere should bea friendly relaxed and happy atmosphere. Any threatening behaviour or misconduct WILL NOT BE TOLOERATED.

Location of parties.

Location of parties is kept very secret. This is in order that peoples privacy be kept and to keep our "secret parties" secret.

Condoms must be worn during all penatrive sex and any time you feel fit.

The only exceptions to this rule is for couples who do not require condoms and at "cum parties" where the lady has given full permission.

No anal sex unless the lady gives permission and wishes to engage in anal sex.

All social events have certain rules the below rules are the main rules to follow at any Club Webeden party or indeed another swinger event you may attend.

• Please arrive on time. Arriving fashionably to arrive late to a swinging party is frowned upon, plus you often miss out on lots of fun.

• Fashionable and casual party clothes are the best to wear. Sometimes it may be more comfortable as the evening continues to wear a robe or some comfortable attire. Keep all valuables to a minimum. This includes Jewellery and money.

• If it is a themed night, come in fancy dress as it is frowned upon and takes value from the night if you do not dress up.

• Always arrive as a couple and depart the party as a couple. It is NOT PARTY ETIQUTTE when a partner, most often the women, disappears leaving her partner at the party as a single. If this happens you will be charged DOUBLE the single rate and NOT be invited back

• Hygiene and good quality grooming is vital for all swingers. Be of body odours as you endeavour in physical activities throughout the night. A kiss with breath bad enough to make your eyes water is not a turn on and breath mints or chewing gum are very helpful!

• Don’t be negative, nobody likes that shy person sitting in the corner being miserable. A smile on your face and a positive happy attitude will help you to have a great night!

• Everyone has the right to say NO!! You don't have to swing with anyone male or female unless you want to. Just as they don't have to swing with you. Tell people your feelings and desires, and ask they do the same. If a swinger says "No," take it courteously and then don't try to pressure them to change their mind. When you say "Yes" to other swingers, be sincere and enthusiastic. When you say "No," be sensitive and polite. Do not say "Maybe later" when you mean "NO."

• DO NOT take a "Ticket" to a swing party. A "ticket" is someone who has no intention of swinging, however is willing to go with someone else in order to help them get in. Of course no one MUST swing at a swinging party, however if one person swings, its expected that the other is happy and free to do the same.

• Do not take somebody to a swing party who’s not completely informed as to what is expected at the swinger’s party and also what is expected of them.

• Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of other swingers if there is a “Do Not Disturb” sign on the door handle of any private room. Do not disturb means DO NOT DISTURB!!!

• The group room is for group swinging so if you want privacy, don't go to the group room. If you take your partner, or any other person to the group room to swing, you can expect others to ask to join you and your partner. (The right of refusal always applies, of course. Swinging in the group room doesn't automatically give others the right to join you nor you the right to join others.)

• Club swing parties have dues or donations. It is your responsibility to present it upon being checked in for a party. Don't make the hosts remind you. This comes on the door at all of our parties.

• Don't be a bedroom "cruiser." Looking into bedrooms, pulling back curtains, turning on lights and going into private swing areas as a stag to see if you can get involved in something are major breaches of swinging etiquette. If you become known for such behaviour, you may find that swing party invitations become few and far between and if reported you will not be allowed back to any other Club Webeden events.

• No hard drugs allowed. You will be expelled from the party and may be prosecuted by security.

• Tell the hosts if another guest causes a problem, or won't take no for an answer, or is objectionable in any real way. They sincerely want to know so that they can correct the situation before it becomes a problem. Keeping problems and bad feelings to yourself only contributes tension to the situation.

• If you like a club or party, say so. If it just isn't your thing, please let us know so we can make it better! We would like to know any issues so we can sort them right away and help you to have a fantastic evening you will remember!

• A note for the single guys: always remember that the road to the lady always goes through her mate. Make a point to chat with both the involved parties. NEVER wait until he excuses himself from the room to ask to play.